calendar》 周三下午《Emotional-六职广播站
Emotional calendar
With our youth and passion to play the voice of the times, with our paper and ink to bring you a beautiful story,. Hello, welcome to every Wednesday afternoon to bring you the "emotional calendar" column, today I am the announcerMaLianghui, today, I will give you about an experience brings me inspiration, hope you can remember this story, I hope you can love.
Don\\'t feel sorry for small grievances
Recently, I saw the news on the Internet, a high school girl\\'s test paper was deskmate peep, after the event, the teacher in charge teacher indiscriminate, sharply criticized in front of the class she is cheating in the exam, the girls had mild autism, hear the teacher in charge teacher groundless accusations about her, she was ashamed and angry, feeling than DouE discretion, immediately rushed out of the classroom, jump jump down from the fifth floor, a teenage girl died instantly.The parents are sad, the classmate is sad, the teacher is guilty, this is the result of the whole tragedy.The teacher in charge teacher did not abide by "some facts, said only a few minutes of words" principle, is wrong, but the girl\\'s response was too aggressive, her psychology is too fragile, a little injustice by her suddenly amplification, turned into a Wallace but Gao Kan and can\\'t afford to carry the anchorman, so she chose to suicide, jumping, flower falls apart.
Life is doomed to be subjected to many grievances, some small, some grievous.It should be said that the more successful a man is, the more grievance he will suffer.These "slander" how many really speak to the point, is to be fair KaiQie words?How much of the polluted water is a dirty word?If he was bothered, the mere spittle would have made him a wreck.If he could not bear it, he would drink it as water every day, and not enough.
In the past few years蛀船虫 , there have been some good people who have not been able to endure the rumors of the wronged and committed suicide, the most typical example is the 1930s in the national film ruan lingyu.Because the paparazzi big plane, about her private life, unknown the truth of the artificial these rumours, the outside world public opinion into her heart, the weight of unbearable, coupled with the unfortunate marriage, she wrote "hang him" after the suicide note, a feeling of sorrow or commit suicide by poison.After a generation of the sun and the sun, the year is only 25 years old.Ruan lingyu\\'s death is both the tragedy of individual life and the great loss of Chinese film industry.
In the extreme, the grievance can hurt or even kill, but we can\\'t let death easily.Everyone\\'s life is precious, also has the chance, disposable, vulnerability and transient, you have to make your life get extremum and dazzle colour, it can\\'t be too care about those little injustice, can\\'t let them pull close your heart, disturb your life.
You should learn to laugh it off.The mouth grows on other people, he wants to make a rumor, you let him make a rumor, the rumor will end in the wise;He\\'s going to talk nonsense, and you\\'re going to let him talk nonsense.He wants to be groundless accusations, you let him groundless accusation, the body is not afraid of the shadow slanting.
You have to learn to be detached.Someone made a mistake, do the stupid thing, you should not take his mistakes and do stupid things to punish the innocent, you seek the right way to respond to them, that is to cast out, with strength, using performance, use aboveboard mind侠行天下, with contempt chicken worm and generous, with a day long dead air, does not dispute to extinguish the rumors江喃 , lies and rhetoric of the vanity of fire.
You have to learn to transform potential energy.If you have a good knife in your hand, it will be passivated for a long time, and they provide the grindstone in time, and you have to thank them.This kind of open-minded and optimistic is absolutely necessary, when you have the ability to turn the external grievances into the inner strength, you can surpass others, overcome yourself, and not to the disadvantage.
Of course, you can also look for higher reference coefficients to convince yourself.Resistance to Kim young woong yue fei southern song dynasty, the Ming dynasty KangQing hero Yuan Chenghuan at that time is late, they received a great injustice, the former is treacherous court official big qin GUI for "supposed" to kill in the wave pavilion, the latter was emperor chongzhen year for collaborationist executed, as big grievances, they all cap on his head, his shoulder, so tragic death.History will, after all, give them true innocence and give them immortality.In comparison, what is your minor grievance?How sad?Why do you give up your life?
The first cicada in the afternoon began to sing with joy, and in the evening the first breeze sent its cool. The most beautiful time, give you the most special, today\\'s program here to say goodbye to everyone, thank you for listening and accompanying, we will see you next week at the same time!
Englishannouncer:MaLianghui 2018.4.24
情感日历
用我们的青春和热情奏响时代的强音，用我们的纸张和笔墨为您带来一个个优美的故事，大家好，欢迎来到每周三下午为您带来的“情感日历”栏目，我是今天的播音员马良辉，今天，我将给您讲述一段经历给我带来的启发，希望你们能够记住这个故事，希望你们能够喜欢。
别为小小的委屈难过
最近，我在网络上看到一条新闻，一位中学女生的试卷被同桌偷看，事后，班主任老师不分青红皂白，当着全班同学的面严厉批评她考试作弊，这位女生原本就患有轻微的自闭症，听到班主任老师对她的无端指责，她又羞又愤，感觉比窦娥还冤，当即冲出教室，从五楼纵身跳下热血八路 ，一位花季少女瞬间命丧黄泉。父母伤心，同学痛心，老师疚心，这就是整幕悲剧的后果。那位班主任老师没有遵守“有几分事实，只说几分话”的原则，固然有错，但这位女生的反应未免太过激了些，她的心理未免太脆弱了些，小小的委屈被她猛然放大，变成了迈不过的高坎和扛不起的铁闸，于是她选择了轻生之路，纵身一跃，花落人亡。
人生在世，注定要受许多委屈，有的委屈很小，有的委屈很大。应该说，一个人越是成功，他所遭受的大大小小的委屈也就会越多，不是说“名满天下，谤亦随之”吗？这些“谤”究竟有多少真正讲到了点子上，是平心而论的剀切之言？究竟有多少属于恶意泼洒的污水，是混淆视听的不实之词？他若倍感困扰，光是那些唾沫星子就能让他长出一身烂疮。他若承受不住，每天把毒药当水喝，也不够剂量。
在过往的岁月中，确实也有一些优秀人物经受不住流言飞语的委屈而自杀了，最典型的例子是上个世纪三十年代红遍全国的影后阮玲玉。由于狗仔队对她的私生活大刨特刨莫麟传奇 ，不明真相的人造谣传谣，外界舆论变成了阮玲玉的内心难以承受的重压，再加上婚姻的不幸七星斗神，她怆然写下“人言可畏”的遗书后，即服毒自杀。如日中天的一代影后香消玉殒，年仅二十五岁。阮玲玉的死既是个体生命的悲剧，也是中国电影事业的巨大损失。
极端而言，大小委屈都能伤人，甚至杀人，但我们不能让死神轻易得逞。每个人的生命都是宝贵的，同样具有偶然性、一次性、脆弱性和短暂性，你要使自己的生命获得极值和炫彩，就不能太在乎那些小小的委屈，不能让它们揪紧你的心灵，扰乱你的生活。
你要学会一笑置之。嘴巴长在别人身上，他要造谣，你就让他造谣，谣言终究会止于智者；他要瞎说，你就让他瞎说，瞎说污损不了你的人格；他要无端指责，你就让他无端指责，身正不怕影子斜。
你要学会超然待之。别人犯了错误，做了蠢事，你不应该拿他所犯的错误和所做的蠢事来惩罚无辜的自己，你要寻求正确的方式去回应他们，那就是将自己铸造成器，用实力，用实绩，用光明磊落的胸怀赵人患鼠 ，用藐视鸡虫得失的大度，用不争一日之长的静气，去扑灭那些用谣言、谎言和不实之词点燃的虚妄之火梦断韶华 。
你要学会转化势能。试想，你手中有一把好刀，詹世钗 好刀用久了也会钝化，他们及时地提供了磨刀石，你还得感谢他们。这样的豁达和乐观是绝对必要的，当你有能耐将外界的委屈转化为内心的力量时，你就能超越他人，战胜自己，无往而不利。
当然，你也可以寻找更高的参照系数来说服自己。南宋抗金英雄岳飞，明朝抗清（当时是后金）英雄袁承焕，他们受过天大的冤屈，前者被大奸臣秦桧以“莫须有”的罪名杀害于风波亭，后者被崇祯皇帝以通敌卖国的罪名凌迟处死，那样大的冤屈，他们都顶在头上，扛在肩上，死得那么惨烈。历史终究要还给他们真正的清白，还给他们不朽的英名。相比较而言，你平时所受的小小的委屈又何足挂齿？何足伤心？何足捐弃生命？
午后的第一只蝉欣喜的开始它的演唱，傍晚的第一丝微风轻盈的送去它的凉爽。最美的年华，给最特别的你，今天的节目到这里就要和大家说再见了，感谢您的收听与陪伴，我们下周同一时间再见！
英文播音员：马良辉
2018.4.24